(See the other posts in this series here)
I missed doing a Germany vs. the US comparison post in April, and not because I’ve run out of things to share, either. My running list keeps growing, so today I’m sharing a few more things that are just different over here.
The Drinking Age
Unlike the legal drinking age of 21 in the States, over here kids can start drinking beer and wine in restaurants (accompanied by their parents) at age 14. Theoretically, they could have a glass at home at an even earlier age. At 16, they can purchase beer and wine, and at 18, they can buy hard liquor.
Since being allowed to drink is considered a rite of passage, my kids were both impressed when an eight-hour plane ride suddenly rendered them of legal age. Neither one is what I would consider a heavy drinker–in fact, I can count on the fingers of one hand the time my almost-eighteen-year-old has had a glass of anything–but the freedom to be able to in theory is better than the reality!
My daughter bought this fruity concoction (because she could) but after one glass it sat in the fridge until it lost its fizz.
There also seem to be no open container laws here. We often pass people drinking a beer while we’re out hiking, and it’s not out of the ordinary to see someone with a beverage on the train or bus. I think I’ve mentioned before that Amazon.de delivers alcoholic beverages; you just have to upload proof of age to your account and then boxes arrive like magic on your doorstep.
Just a side note on cost and quality…beer and wine are super-inexpensive over here. Obviously the cost of importing European brands drives prices higher in the States, but it still warms my heart to be able to buy a 5€ bottle of wine that would be $20 at home. Beer is as inexpensive as water, and the ingredients are strictly mandated over here–just barley, hops, and malt (so it’s like a health drink, right?). I also find the wines to have fewer sulfites and I rarely, if ever, get a headache from European wines.
Recycling–Not for the Faint of Heart!
So, obviously if we’re drinking all of these bottles of wine and beer, recycling is a big part of our lives. Germans are deadly serious about their trash and recycling and when we first arrived, this actually caused me major stress! While it has never happened to me (yet!), lots of friends have told me stories about how they were “counseled” by their neighbors about their poor trash sorting skills.
This varies from town to town, but in Stuttgart we have separate cans and recycling for paper/cardboard, biodegradable waste (although many people keep a compost pile and don’t need to toss this), and restmüll (actual trash). These are my bins for my gelb sack trash–to be discussed further below–and paper.
Then we take our glass like wine bottles and glass jars to local recycling centers and sort it by color (white, green, and brown). Glass and plastic bottles that we had to pay a deposit on (called pfand) at purchase get returned to the store where we bought them, and we get a coupon for a discount off of our next purchase. This is my bin o’ pfand returns:
This is the pull out trash under my sink…restmüll is in the front and I use the other two bins for our glass recycling.
Last, but not least, gelb (gelb=yellow) sacks hold light-weight product packaging. Here’s the list of what that means: plastic packaging (yogurt or sour cream),tetra-pack (as for milk or juice), packaging with plastic in front and cardboard on the back (like pasta boxes), aerosol cans (ex: hairspray), boxes and tins, screw tops (from the glass jars or bottles that you recycled), styrofoam, film and plastic bags, and pet food packaging. We also have to throw in American aluminum cans and plastic drink bottles that don’t carry a pfand mark on them. Phew!
The yellow bags get tied up and put outside in our trash room, and the trash guys come and pick up. Different kinds of trash get picked up on different days and at different intervals, although I have given up on keeping track of that. Another interesting thing is that they must have a master key for all of the trash rooms because they just let themselves in and take care of it.
The cost of trash removal is covered in the nebenkosten (the utilities portion of our rent), but I believe the landlords pay according to how many cans are at the building (if any of you know differently, please correct me). That’s probably why the cans are locked up!
Laundry
Laundry is different, too. We were told to leave our machines at home because everything is 220V over here and the base gives us loaners to use while we’re here (even though we live off-base). I was so thankful for this because the cost of just purchasing the basic 220V household appliances we needed was pretty steep.
Our machines are in a communal laundry area in our basement, but each apartment has their own machines. Of course the water and air temperatures are in Celsius.
The cycle length is much longer in German machines–try three hours to run a load of wash! Fortunately, there’s a 60 minute express cycle that I use for everyday loads. The machines are much smaller so we run more loads, and since the water is so hard here, things work best when we use their laundry detergents.
The dryer isn’t vented to the outside like we’re used to in the States; instead, there’s this drawer that’s a reservoir for the extracted water:
Every time we run a load, we have to dump the water in the laundry sink. That being said, I only dry sheets and towels now, because it’s the German way to hang laundry to dry. Electricity is super-expensive here, and dryers use a ton of electricity, so even apartment-dwellers hang their laundry out their windows or set up a rack on their balconies.
Driving
I grew up in and around Washington, DC, so I’m used to city driving, but city driving in Stuttgart is on an entirely different level. This picture from my daughter’s bedroom shows you how we have cars lining both sides of the street. Most of the downtown streets are this way, so if you happen to run into someone coming the other way, one of you has to pull over or back up or you really will run into each other!
Throw in some crazy steep hills, switchbacks, and lots of trains, buses, and bicyclists, and driving takes 110% of my concentration. It’s strictly illegal to even touch your cell phone while driving in Germany, and with good reason.
We had to take a stringent written test when we arrived to get our (military-sponsored) drivers’ licenses. While they drive on the same side of the road as we do, all of the signs are different, and of course speeds are in kilometers. Their right of way rules are quite different, too, and there’s no right turn on red. Also, if you can’t parallel park like a boss, then you probably shouldn’t live in a city in Europe unless you have a garage! We have one garage spot, but my husband’s car gets it, so the Beetle has been wedged into many a tiny space (and without a backup sensor or camera, thank you very much). The parking space wars are kind of like our version of the Hunger Games and there has to be a very good reason for me to give mine up!
If you’ve visited Europe, then you know that 99% of the cars are manual transmissions, so if you’re going to rent a car, be prepared to pay more for an automatic. When my daughter and I went to Mallorca, that wasn’t even an option, but fortunately my first three cars were stick shift so it wasn’t an issue. They’re actually easier to drive with all of the hills and mountains, which is probably the reason for them being so prevalent over here.
Last but not least, here in Germany you can’t get a driver’s license until you’re 18, and their driving school/test is much more challenging than ours. They also have excellent public transportation systems (likely because Germany is only about the same size as the state of Montana). As a result, people over here who get a license go to some extra trouble to do it, and in my opinion they just drive better in general than we do. Anyone who has merged down to one lane of traffic in Germany appreciates the Reißverschlusssystem, or zipper merge, that they use over here. In DC, people would rather die than let someone from the next lane merge in front of them, but here they file in either/or and it all it flows perfectly.
There you have it–if you have anything to add, just drop a comment below. Thanks for stopping by!
Merrill says
I enjoy your blog and especially enjoy reading about the differences between the USA and Germany. But I do need to comment on the driving. I grew up and live in a suburb of NYC where I learned to drive 60 years ago. It has always been a courtesy in the USA to pull to the side of the rode when another car is coming in the opposite direction which may be blocked by a parked car, post office truck, delivery truck, etc. on the opposite side of the street I was surprised that you mentioned that you found this different in the way German people drive. I enjoy your blogs and always look forward to reading what you two ladies and your families are doing. Thanks for the time you give all of us. Stay healthy.
Christy says
Hello, Merrill–Thank you for commenting. If you learned to drive outside of NYC then you definitely have more skills than most US drivers do! The rule over here is a little more strict…if the blockage is on your side of the street, then you are supposed to yield to the oncoming car so they can pass. The challenge is that so many streets have cars parked on both sides, there’s only room for one car to get through. When that happens, whomever has a spot to pull off (say onto the sidewalk or into a parking space) will pull off to let the other car pass. No one gets cross about it or honks like they would in the States (at least, in DC!). I did have to back up about 100m one day when the trash truck was coming down the hill, because even though my lane was the clear one, as we know, the trash truck beats a Beetle every time! Ha! Thanks again for the comment. Take care!
June says
that was fun to read all about your new home life. You’re very good at adapting to all the differences between the countries? I could do it for a week? haha
Christy says
You could do it for longer if you had to. 🙂 Some days I’m tired of it and just want “normal” and in my own language, but most days it’s fun.Have a great Sunday–and thanks so much for writing!
Julie says
Thank you once again Christy for all this interesting information! I am into recycling and always looking to improve upon it home and otherwise. I think of you
whenever I am at a grocery store or getting gas and all those other everyday events wondering what’s it like and cost. Overtime I’m sure you’ll touch upon it all!! Eagerly looking forward to the next chapter!!
Christy says
Well, they definitely take recycling to an entirely new level here, but the interesting thing is that the other European countries I’ve been to are nowhere near as strict about it. It’s also funny to me that they have these tiny trash drawers in the kitchen but need a much larger system.
Food is less expensive and higher quality here, and gas is much more expensive (about the same price for a liter as we pay for a gallon). It probably balances out in the end! Take care, Julie! –Christy
Jennibell says
As always, so interesting!
Are there things you’ve learned and/or practices you’ve adapted to that you can see yourself bringing back to the States with you?
What do you miss MOST about American living (besides parking lots and driveways/2-car garages)?
How is you command for the language coming? What about your husband and daughter?
Christy says
Oh, let’s see…I do love the idea of nothing being open on Sunday. It’s a forcing mechanism that makes me slow down and enjoy time with family. I hope we can continue that when we return. I also like going to the market almost daily; the food is fresher that way and I’m less likely to let things spoil in the refrigerator.
What I miss most is being able to communicate with people. I’m so used to making small talk, and especially with Covid keeping me locked down most of the time, I miss just talking to people. I’m an introvert, so you know it’s really bad for me to say that!
Related to the above response, we’re doing really badly with our German, to be honest. Well, my husband and I are doing badly. My daughter is great with languages and is already conversational. But we got out of the habit during the winter because everything was closed and there was no one to practice with–and no need to practice. Hopefully when I get back after the summer back in the States we can pick it back up again.
Those were good questions–you really made me think!
Pat says
I just read this today and it’s so interesting to learn about these differences. Thanks so much for continuing to do them! Oh my, the recycling and the laundry would take getting used to! 😂 I had no idea about the earlier age for drinking either. I would love to find wine here without all the sulfites!
So you’re going to be back in the States for a bit? I’m sure you’re happy about that. Great to see your son!
xo
Pat
Christy says
Yes, we are going to head back at the end of June. I wound up having an emergency appendectomy at the beginning of the month and can’t fly until then, but the weather is finally nice and things are starting to open back up.
Hope you’re doing well, Pat! Christy
Jeanine says
Hi Christy, Wow, I am amazed at all that you have to get used to in Germany! A lot of it sounds like a fun adventure, but I would not do well with the driving at all, so kudos to you for being able to manage it! On another note, could you share how to get your daily email re: all that’s going on during these times related to bible prophecy? I am very much interested in this because I believe that we are living during the last days. Have you read any of Jonathan Cahn’s books? He was the main leader of The Return held in D.C. last September.
Tamara Larson says
Hi Christy!
I really appreciate all of your posts and the time you put into them and and I like the “fluff” very much. You’ve shared many useful things! I’ would also love the link to your biblical prophecy posts. I know it’s completely different than the content here but I think you’d be surprised by how many of us would appreciate putting the times we are living through in context biblically. Thanks again so much!
Aimee says
I enjoy your Germany vs US posts as well! I would also like to learn how to subscribe to your emails about the last days. Thank you!
Christy says
Thank you, Aimee! Of course–I just sent you an email with more information.